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“Mom, would you wash my back” by Angela Nguyen

I wish I could still fit in the red tub you put in the shower

With the fading children playing at the bottom of the basin

They disappeared as I grew up and outgrew your bathing hand


I never grew much more

I may not fit inside the red tub, the thau đỏ 

But you can still help me wash my hair with your calloused hands


Now that tub is gone.

It’s too old and worn, used by the four siblings after me.

I’m too old now, but you said I’ll always be your baby.


Once more, before I grow any older,

Before you shrink even more,

I want to sit in the red tub again


To feel small again in my rapidly evolving environment

To dream of my future instead of planning it

To be cared for by you before I have to care for you.


Someday, I’ll wash my child in a red tub in the shower.

I’ll pretend to be you and run a house instead of playing house.

But until that someday, Mom, Mẹ, let me be in the red tub again.


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